Saturday, November 1, 2014

My Social Media Delima

Funny how people i went to gwags with, now have studied at one London or American school on their profiles because of masters, no trace of their Nigerian education whatsoever. You do realise that an inferiority complex is a mental not physical state. Just realised that for many Nigerians boarding an aeroplane to any land that has white people improves a persons  social status especially with the help of social media. I'm not refering to a few holiday snaps, i'm refering to the show offs. Some have caught my attention but I will refrain from mentioning names.
This post is for those who are living their lives by what they see on social media. Hate to break it to you but life is not so rosy for the fake people you're trying to keep up with either. Some of you wise ones will say tell me something new but i've come to realise a lot of people are so caught up in the images they are becoming soo (for lack of a better discription) self absorbed. Being the best dressed, richest, prettiest name it, they want it, to qoute my pastors wife "most young people today want what thier fathers worked for years to get, right now".
My worry is not that young people have long throat, it is what drives it that worries me. It is so difficult for young Nigerians to come out for what is important, but mention show and you need not say more.
So to the posers that brought about this post, remember you're not what you wear and where you've been. Be a good human being and we'll love you no matter what.

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Hello

Ladies and gentle men old age does not connote maturity. It is true people expect that by a certain age a man or woman should have started their own families. probably one of the reasons we have a lot of homes i prefer to call "sorry containers". how can a woman want to get married and not want to submit? or a guy want a wife that will not mind him living as a bachelor? is it me or common sense don dey scarce?
The annoying thing is that this boys actually believe they are Gods gift to women. The women matter even worse pass," all the guys for area dey toast me so na me be miss Niger". WRONG! I have come to realize that the only reason guys who know each other will go after the same girl is because they think she is easy. what is giving you the impression guys do not talk to each other? girls mumu too dey worry some of una, seriously. Then there are those of you making it hard for men to treat women with respect, they have no self control, no self respect, no shame, no nothing. Please help yourselves.
To my boys, abeg women are looking for men to marry. we cannot be raising children and our husbands.